Newborn hugged by his older brother in a newborn home lifestyle family photoshoot

Top Tips for a Stress-Free and Fun Family Photoshoot

Family photos are more than just pictures; they are memories that last a lifetime. But let’s be real—getting everyone ready, keeping the kids happy, and making sure the photos turn out great can feel overwhelming. The good news? It doesn’t have to be!

Here are my top tips to help you enjoy your session and get stunning, natural, and joy-filled family photos.

1. Choose the Right Time


Timing is everything! Golden hour (just after sunrise or before sunset) provides soft, flattering light for beautiful, glowing images. If you have little ones, consider their nap schedules and choose a time when they’re well-rested and happy. Maybe later in the year when the sun sets earlier would be far better for your little ones.

2. What to Wear: Keep It Simple & Coordinated


Your outfits should be coordinated, not matching. Stick to neutral and earthy tones or soft pastels to create a timeless and cohesive look. Avoid loud patterns, logos, or neon colours, as they can be distracting in photos.

✔️ Flowy dresses for moms create a beautiful, natural movement.

✔️ Layering (cardigans, scarves, or hats) adds depth to your photos.

✔️ Barefoot for beach or park sessions? Absolutely!

3. Let Kids Be Kids!


If you have little ones, embrace their energy and playfulness! Some of the best photos come from candid moments—running, giggling, and exploring. Instead of telling them to “smile,” engage them in fun prompts like:

🎶 “Whisper something silly in Dad’s ear!”

🏃‍♂️ “Race to Mom and give her the biggest hug!”


The result? Natural, joyful expressions that feel authentic and full of love.

Mother and daughter at the beach for a family photoshoot in white dresses dancing and having fun.
Three siblings in a teepee snuggling into each other and giggling.
A family hanging out on the jetty blowing bubbles and enjoying the sunset at a family photoshoot

4. Keep It Relaxed & Stress-Free


Kids can sense stress, so the more relaxed you are, the better! Instead of aiming for “perfect” poses, focus on having fun and enjoying the moment. I’ll guide you every step of the way to capture the real, beautiful connections between your family.

5. Trust Your Photographer!


As a family photographer, my goal is to make your session easy, fun, and enjoyable. I know how to work with different personalities, bring out natural smiles, and capture the moments that truly matter.

Family photoshoot turned into a painting sessions.
Family photoshoot at the beach with toddler son as they play in the water and have lots of fun
Cousins dancing and hugging in the sunset light of of this photoshoot.
In the family home, son helping her boys getting ready for a family lifestyle photoshoot.


📷 Ready to book your stress-free family session?

Let’s create magic together! Book your session today!


Shakina Phelix Media Photography photographing a family session